Who are we comparing our spouses to if we let our minds fantasize? It leads to unrealistic expectations. With these unreal expectations, we sabotage our relationships.
Remember the old computer saying “junk in, junk out.” The same thing with our minds. Focus and appreciate all that your spouse was and is today what they have given over the years….look into their eyes…and see The Light. That spark and likeness that has always been there.
As the years progress in life infatuation subsides and adoration rises. If you continue to appreciate your spouse instead of finding fault…water the flower of adoration…pluck out the weeds of fantasizing.
Love & Blessing,